Can family members have conflicting destinies?
When discussing the topic of conflicting destinies, the most talked-about example is the “destiny that harms husbands.” This notion actually carries a certain feudal connotation because, in the past, there was a strong emphasis on so-called monarchic power, paternal authority, and marital dominance. Therefore, terms like “harm husband” and “harm father” are frequently mentioned, while issues like “harm wife” and “harm child” are less often addressed. However, these destiny-related issues do exist.
The term “harm” in destiny refers to two people being together where the one who is harmed often shows signs of physical weakness or poor health, potentially leading to certain illnesses.
Conflicting destinies are akin to magnetic fields. Studying feng shui involves examining cosmic magnetic fields; studying destiny involves exploring the magnetic fields between individuals. When destinies conflict, it signifies that two people’s magnetic fields are incompatible, causing feelings of oppression or discomfort when they are together.
If two people with incompatible magnetic fields stay together for an extended period without separation, one party will inevitably feel oppressed and develop a negative mood.
However, it is essential to view destiny issues dialectically. For instance, regarding the destinies of couples in the past, people placed great importance on these matters due to historical factors. In feudal societies, women had limited opportunities for work and mostly stayed at home to support their husbands and raise children. Their living radius was very small—essentially confined to their household—and they had minimal social interactions.
With societal development today, women have their own careers and social circles; they engage in work and social activities daily. Even if such conflicting destinies exist between two individuals, if they are not constantly glued to each other—each having their own jobs, hobbies, and lives—their magnetic fields will be significantly depleted elsewhere throughout the day. It’s like batteries: by the time they return home together after expending energy elsewhere during the day, both parties’ “charge” will be nearly exhausted; thus their mutual influence will be much less at that time.
If there is a conflict in destinies between spouses, it is also important to pay attention to behavior patterns such as actions taken in situations and emotional control; fundamentally speaking, this revolves around three words: “altruistic mindset.”
When you say anything at all, consider how it affects your partner’s feelings. If you make minor mistakes in daily life, address them promptly; apologize when necessary. If arguments arise regularly between you two, ensure that you stick to discussing specific issues rather than bringing up past grievances or resorting to personal attacks.
Can children harm their parents?
Your child is either here to repay kindness or seek revenge; most often it’s revenge. As we see in the news too often—children who repay kindness are indeed rare; those who are exceptionally obedient from a young age—studying hard while being respectful towards their parents with ideal education levels and fulfilling careers—are not as common as one might think.
In terms of the five elements concept of ‘conflict,’ it essentially refers to draining energy. For example: wood conflicts with earth; wood stabilizes earth which means that from earth’s perspective its strength cannot fully extend anymore—it’s a state where wood restricts earth’s freedom.
Your child may be draining your energy from this perspective; having children inherently puts you in a state of being constrained by them—you become bound by your child.
You may have previously enjoyed a carefree life with your spouse—traveling together or enjoying movies over coffee—but can you still think about those things after having children? Your entire focus now revolves around them.
Children differ from spouses—they naturally possess an inherent tendency to challenge their parents’ authority—not necessarily in an astrological sense but rather practically speaking.
From an astrological perspective as well as destiny analysis standpoint—it’s possible for children’s fates to clash with those of their parents—but this kind of ‘conflict’ isn’t truly problematic; it’s merely part of each child’s individual fate.
Many believers ask whether bad luck on my part results in my children turning out poorly? How could that be possible! Do farmers never produce wealthy offspring? Do farmers never produce high-ranking officials? Some families might struggle financially or have difficult parental fates yet still manage to raise good children regardless!
Thus fate belongs individually—parents cannot dictate children’s fates nor can children dictate theirs!
So when you calculate and find out that your child’s fate conflicts with yours,
firstly don’t worry too much; excessive concern will only accelerate your energy depletion affecting both health and career negatively. If someone tells you this child harms you physically then focus on maintaining good health instead!
Secondly manage your child’s upbringing by focusing on major aspects rather than micromanaging everything!
Thirdly understand that even without this child—the income destined for you remains unchanged along with lifespan expectations or any potential illnesses!
This concept relates directly back towards predetermined fate—it’s established at birth! When you give birth—the moment your child arrives has no bearing upon shaping your own destiny!
Therefore when someone mentions how children harm parents first take note—this could indicate difficulty managing said child hence mastering effective parenting methods becomes crucial!
Take care of yourself while practicing self-care alongside learning how best relieve psychological stress! What parent doesn’t feel exhausted?
However avoid excessive control over kids making them fearful or treating them like delicate flowers kept within greenhouses!
So next time someone brings up family members having conflicting fates listen dialectically without becoming overly anxious nor harboring resentment!
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